How can I get my 9 month old to take a bottle?

I've been feeding my baby for 9 months eclusively and I want to start weaning her off the . I've tried giving her several different types of bottles. She hates the pacifier so I knew should wouldn't take to any bottle. She barely drinks juice or water from a sippy cup so I take it she wouldn't like my milk from that either. Do you have any suggestions? So far I gave in once today already and just fed her. She is asleep now and I'm hoping to try the bottle again. I know she will cry forever but should I wait until she is just starving to death? Also, should I continue to feed her baby food or just let her starve completely? Because I think that its kind of rude to do that. Please help! Thanks!